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Jesus has a bride, but did he have a wife?

Maybe you saw the buzz in the news about a papyrus fragment from the 4th century, written in the Coptic…

post by Ben

Maybe you saw the buzz in the news about a papyrus fragment from the 4th century, written in the Coptic language. It includes a few phrases that include a line, “Jesus said to them, My wife…’” This has led some to wonder if this is Jesus referring to his own wife – and if so, it would be the first known statement saying that Jesus was married. So this has created a lot of excitement.

So, now what? First of all folks, we don’t need to be afraid of real evidence. Finding old papyrus fragments is fascinating and I love the investigation that results from looking at manuscript evidence. Of course there always plenty of shabby scholars of the tabloid variety who seem more interested in fantastical claims and cheap notoriety than real scholarship. They routinely make it look like some “new” discovery reveals some earth shattering evidence when in fact it really doesn’t. But we mustn’t let that make us overly wary of good scholarship or the discovery and learning that takes place when genuine textual scholars study ancient manuscripts.

The Bible I hope you read from this morning is the fruit of careful textual study, as scholars have faithfully pored over thousands of scraps and fragments, coming to consensus on the absolute best texts.

This consensus of what are the oldest and most reliable texts is, in the end, the reason we can’t put too much stock in something like the papyrus in question — a sole fragment coming from as late as the 4th Century in the Coptic language. It doesn’t mean it’s absolutely false; it just means that there’s good reason  many scholars believe this one is a fake.  (For a good article on why this looks a lot like a modern author creating a forgery, check out ).  At the least we have to acknowledge that this “new discovery” has the large burden of standing alone, against the huge preponderance of evidence that points in another direction regarding the conclusion of Jesus’ marital status.

So we’re not afraid of where good evidence might lead us. But we’re smart enough not to go there if the evidence doesn’t require it.

I spoke with a seminary prof who is a friend of mine, from Emmanuel Christian Seminary. Dr. Rollin Ramsaran is a New Testament scholar himself, who pointed out something important.

He reminded me that in addition to the canonical gospels – the Biblical record of Jesus’ life which we have today — we have mountains of manuscript evidence about Jesus’ life which is much, much earlier than this fragment. What we find in that vast treasure house of evidence is exactly nothing about the notion of Jesus being married.

Given this silence, it seems likely that this sentence points to a later tradition (remember this is a few hundred years after the time of Jesus) that centered on speculating questions like “what if” Jesus did have a wife? This would be similar to other writings we call “apocryphal” gospels that were written to imagine what Jesus was like when he was a child. “What if” we tried to think of how Jesus played with his friends – what might it look like? There are stories that came along later, after the gospels we have in our Bible, about Jesus building birds from mud and then making them come alive, or healing friends, doing tricks in the neighborhood and the like. It could easily be that similar imaginings could have arisen around the question, “what if Jesus were married?” and that this fragment represents that.

But in the end, it would seem extremely unlikely that Jesus having a wife would be something that would be so well suppressed for a couple hundred years prior to this manuscript, and for the 2000 years after it. It would mean none of the eyewitness accounts or earliest traditions about Jesus thought to ever mention it even once, and in fact, found some reason and ability to successfully suppress it … until the 4th century when one piece of papyrus recorded it, but which has remained in complete obscurity for 17 centuries.

I appreciate Dr. Ramsaran’s conclusion: “So if Jesus was married, it wouldn’t be the end of the world or the faith –but it seems historically very unlikely to me based on the evidence.”

Well said, thanks Doc.

Call me out of my mind, but I really think the main point is not about whether Jesus had a wife. I think we can trust the gospels we have, which don’t mention it. What we do know is that Jesus has a Bride – his people, a Church, full of forgiven sinners and blood-washed souls. And Jesus really, really loves his Bride. So much that he gave his life for her, and opened the door so that EVERYONE could be part of it. A fragment is NOT news. That Jesus gave up his life for us – THAT is news! This is the amazing, hidden, too-often-yet-to-be-discovered truth that we should be calling press conferences for. Because if it’s true – it radically changes everything.


5 thoughts on “Jesus has a bride, but did he have a wife?

  1. Another item that, while not evidence, should be considered is the idea that Jesus, knowing what his earthly life and mission would be like, would probably not burden a wife with a husband who would never be at home and unable to support her as well as the reality that she would become a widow relatively early in her marriage.

    I personally am in the group that wasn’t mentioned – Christians who trust that God is in control and knows what he’s doing and the knowledge that whether Jesus was married or not, it wouldn’t affect the core idea of the gospel.

    1. Great point, Jim. On the cross, Jesus asked John to be sure to take care of his mother. If he had a wife, it would be a strange omission to forget to mention her!

      There was a powerful Gnostic influence that desperately wanted to distance Jesus — and themselves — from the earthiness and physicality of material things, like sexuality and marriage. Because they were viewed as evil, there was concerted effort to de-emphasize Jesus’ and their own connection to such things. Some see fragments like the “Jesus Wife” papyrus as part of a later tradition that wanted to swing it the other direciton, to show his connection to earthly attachments in a counter-gnostic way.

      There are some persuasive articles out now, since i wrote this post, that argue strongly for this fragment being forged. They base their conclusion on the use of Coptic language and other evidence.

      In the end, i’m with you — it doesn’t change the gospel.

      1. More and more scholars are weighing in on this debate, including Coptologists (experts in the Coptic language and history). You can see the latest skeptical comments at Unfortunately, the fragment has only recently been submitted for chemical analysis of the papyrus and ink, a procedure that should have been carried out before the fragment was “unveiled” in a public conference.

        1. I have to agree that Watson’s comments about Secret Mark seem eegorigus and factually wrong. If he had suggested that a forger of GJW could have been responding to a common misunderstanding of Secret Mark, that might have been accurate. Instead, his description of the content of Secret Mark is simply false. It is a little alarming that he includes Mar Saba Letter III.13-14 in his citation, since those are the very verses of the text that show Watson’s reading of the text is wrong.Worse, the Guardian article gets it even more wrong, for there is only one man who visits Jesus in Secret Mark, and he is clothed.As for Watson’s argument that the GJW author “compositional procedure” was inspired by Secret Mark, there are any number of forged gospels that draw upon biblical sources both canonical and apocryphal, so Watson’s suggestion seems to be of little help here.I have little opinion on the authenticity of the GJW fragment, though the remainder of Watson’s analysis seems reasonably sound, at least on first impression. But then, so does McGrath’s.

  2. “He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom’s voice. So this joy of mine has been made full.

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